Happy Anniversary.

It's just amazing how time flies right past you. Tomorrow, May 26th, will be my three year wedding anniversary. To be honest, it seems so much longer than that because in December, we would have been together a total of eight years!  How awesome is that!??

Marriage is definitely work! But this is the best job ever! Getting married was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I'm so glad that I get to share these  family memories, and spend these wonderful times of watching my kids grow with someone I LOVE and who is on the same page as me... who is all about US... ALL of us and not just themselves. Someone who is dedicated to me and these children and who I KNOW would fight ten men and three pit bulls to protect us!

I don't like to say great things about my marriage for two reasons...for one, there are two many miserable, hateful ass people out there who just hope and pray for your destruction....... and reason two being, YOU NEVER KNOW what lies in store for you. I'm optimistic, but not naive and I don't like people to see egg on my face!

 When people start growing and changing, sometimes they grow in different directions and that tends to build a wedge between the marriage. But thank God Almighty that we have managed to grow as individuals and still be on the same path, and headed in the same direction in life and luckily for us... our marriage is working... its healthy and we are happy. I know everyone can't say that and because of that I'm SO grateful. God is good.

Here is a picture I took one early morning on my way to work. Everyone was asleep and I was getting ready to head out the door. Before I left, I had to grab my wedding band of course! This little counter space is where we put all the things that we don't want Rhea to get her hands on. This is where we usually leave our bands every night and pick them up from every morning. But there was something about the way the rings were laid out this particular morning that made me want to take a picture of it... It made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside...